11
Dec
Posted in Cry for Help | No Comments »

photo credit: Olga Díez (Caliope)
I know, I know, I know. I have been remiss. The blog gods are angry. And all I feel is … ashamed.
For one thing, I said yes to too many things. And if unemployment has taught me anything (and, yes, it’s taught me a lot) it is that LIFE IS PRECIOUS. And I don’t mean baby-in-your-tummy life, I mean, life outside of work.
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Tags: embarrassment to unemployment, employment opportunities, everybody wants a piece of you, freelance bullpen, jerky, laura ingalls, life outside of work, overemployment, overworked, the long winter, too much work, vultures, when to say no, work to live, working too much
1
Oct
Posted in Dept. of Labor | No Comments »

photo credit: number657
I helped a friend move yesterday, and holy shit, I am tired. Moving is grueling work! And, actually, she had movers, two guys in their twenties who showed up with a ginormous old-school blue van and orchestrated the heavy lifting and couch maneuvering. (Despite my numerous talents, I have never been good at spatial relations, and the way they managed to get a table through a doorway, or a couch into an elevator, failed not to amaze me.)
When L. and I met the fellows, they mentioned, I believe rather cavalierly, that she had brought along her “strongest friend.” Not being one who wants to seem weak or too girly to hustle, too focused on my mani-pedi to get down and possibly dirty, that brought out my competitive nature. I was determined to prove them right—I am, indeed, L.’s strongest friend!
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Tags: corporate ladder, different jobs in life, employment opportunities, flexible hours, girl mover nyc, Herculean efforts, in the interest of happiness, middle-management, moving day, perks, routine, schedule management, self-employment, varied days, what you want your life to look like